Being a working woman, one always has to aim for a work-life balance. Plus sometimes I am bogged down by this nagging thought in my head:” My baby needs me, why am I working?” Well ladies let me help you find a little peace of mind by following these tips for work-life balance:
1. Drop the guilt: You are a capable woman. Your parents/you yourself have invested time and money in getting yourself an education. If you feel that you can use this skill and talent in getting recognized in the world beyond and to earn some green, then drop that guilt! I know that its a pain to leave behind your child and pursue your career, but hey its a choice that you have decided to make. That doesn’t make us bad mothers (at least I want to believe that). Don’t ever let others tell you that, and if they do then ignore and move on. They do not know your battles.
2. Do not bring baggage home: The big problem working people face, especially due to technologies is that they cannot switch off. Your emails on your phone, your work in your bag, your laptop in your hand and the list is endless. Lean to switch off when you get home. Give full attention to your kids and your spouse. Let them be a part of your time at home. I know it sometimes gets difficult to let go of burning issue, its better to finish it at work rather than come home and spend time working. Always know that you are indispensable for your family, not for your Company. Anyone can take your position there but not your position at home. Give your children the time and love they seek. Make them feel important, it will go a long way.
3. Schedule routines: Routines are your best bet. Set a routine and stick to it. I work six days but Saturdays I generally come home early. If my child is awake I make it a point to take him to a garden or for a walk downstairs, irrespective of how tired I am. Have a daily schedule set and try your best to stick to it. I know how difficult it is for us mothers but we need to make up for the lost time in the day. Buck up women, we are super multi-taskers and we can handle this too, and with panache!
4. Spend quality time: Spending time doesn’t always mean with your child. You have a spouse too who needs just as much attention. Try and go for short vacations, long drives and sometimes even a quick special dinner outside does wonders. You and your partner need to feel the spark so that the romance doesn’t leave you. There is so much happening in both your lives that sometimes cuddling up and sharing stories of your day is like a stress buster. It’s okay to have some privacy without involving your kid, after all gal..I already told you..Drop that guilt.
So, these are some of the tips for work-life balance.
If you liked my post or wanna add to some more tips, do comment. Would love to hear from you!
Happy Parenting with Budding Star
